IT’S A RELATIONSHIP
REVOLUTION BETWEEN
TWO COVERS

mothering & daughtering: keeping your bond strong through the teen years

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As the mother of two daughters, 14 and 15 years old, this book has become my bible.

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-KT, mother

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As a mom of an almost 14 year-old adventurous daughter, I’ve made it a personal mission to defy the stereotypes that insist the teen years must be terrible, and this book is my companion in that mission.

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-CT, mother

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It’s two books in one.

(A flip book!)

With one half for mothers, and one half for their teenage daughters

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MOTHERING SIDE (front of book)

DAUGHTERING SIDE (back of book)

Offering you two breakthrough guides in one, Mothering and Daughtering was created to help you find and protect the unique treasure that is your relationship. For moms, Sil addresses the central task of stopping the cycle of separation and anxiety that plagues so many, drawing on her clinical expertise to nurture the skills of listening, boundary setting, mirroring, containing, and more. Turn the book over, and Eliza shares empowering advice to teens looking to keep it real with Mom while also finding strength in their own intuition, friendships, and dreams.

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After years of reading parenting books, this one stood out as a book written from the heart. The best advice came from these pages…”raising your daughter to become herself.”

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VB, mother

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Are you craving a local community of like-minded mothers and daughters?

Create a Mothering & Daughtering Book Group

Creating a book club is for mothers who want local support;

Mothers who know that we weren’t meant to walk the mothering path alone.

This guide is for you if you’re ready to share your wisdom with
other mothers who share your values,

and to gain confidence together as you dive deep into the topics and practices of Mothering & Daughtering.

Invite your daughter into the M&D community,

where she can meet like-minded daughters who believe
that it’s possible to thrive and not just survive
during the preteen, teen years, and beyond.

This beautiful PDF guide includes:

  • A full guide to creating a group for mothers, or a group for mothers and daughters by expert teachers and facilitators, Sil & Eliza Reynolds
  • Tips on who to invite, how to invite them, and where to gather
  • Opening and closing exercises to create a safe and fun circle
  • Session-by-session discussion and activity guides that invite your book group to thrive, be real, and go deep


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What I love most about this book is how honest and down-to-earth Sil and Eliza are about themselves and their relationship. Girls and their moms will find comfort and companionship from two people who have themselves struggled — and who offer strategies and wisdom that will help all of us become more aware, authentic mothers and daughters.

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-Rachel Simmons

author of "Odd Girl Out" and "The Curse of the Good Girl"

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Mothering and Daughtering has been deeply meaningful to us. Sil and Eliza have given us practical tools and wisdom that transformed our relationship and deepened our bond during the challenging teenage years. This beautifully written book is fresh with creative ideas and is a gift to all mothers and their teenage daughters.

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-Eileen Fisher and Sasha Fisher-Zweibel

Mother and Designer, and Daughter